At One2One.ie we find those who find a relationship within the first few dates are
– Very relationship oriented and tends to have a history of long term relationships
– They are committed to the idea of being in a relationship, and bring openness and honesty to each date.
– They don’t judge their match based on an excessive list of must-haves and deal-breakers.
Those who take longer to find a committed relationship tend to
-Have a list of “must haves”
-Have difficulty dating someone who doesn’t seem to fit their “Type”
– make quick judgements on a proposal or date without giving it a chance.
Those last few points are what get in people’s way a lot!
If you enter into each date with the idea that something better is probably around the corner, you are creating a huge dating obstacle for yourself. When you date you should be looking for a partner, not perfection. Keeping a list of must-have qualities for your date puts you at a huge disadvantage. No one will ever hold up to your lofty standards. Hair colour, dress size, or the kind of car someone owns shouldn’t be what contributes to a lasting relationship.
Often people don’t realise they are putting up obstacles, or sabotaging themselves with their dating behaviour. The big plus of working with One2One is that we can help you pinpoint any of these issues that may be holding you back, and work through them with you.
Why not call us on 01 9020 121?
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